Parents are the most beautiful relationships in the world. They give us life and raise us. The birth of a baby is like a blessing for parents. Parents struggle throughout their lives to ensure the happiness of their children. Value your parents.
Value of Mother
A mother is a particular person in everyone’s life. She is the one and only person who sees the charm in the eyes of their offerings and gets excited. Even she did not know about your worldly achievements. Still, she is happy to see you thrilled. She wakes up early in the morning for you and then does all of your small things. However, she wanted to leave you alone with your daily stuff. She tries hard to keep you happy.
Her priority is her children. I have seen cases in which a mother, after the death of her husband, is brought up under her custody as the birds expand their wings to cover their babies. After marriage, her life completely changed, her priorities changed, and even in most cases, she forgot to maintain herself. This is how her center of focus becomes the husband and children.
Father
He works to earn income to fulfill your needs. Did you observe that during shopping, he focuses on your needs and does not buy anything clothing for himself?
Children
Instead of helping their parents, the children ask for their wishes or requirements. Our parents ignore their basic needs and fulfill the desires of their generation. But only a few can realize this effort and acknowledge it. Mostly, they took their efforts for granted. She gives you a cooked meal in front of you, he’s your clothes and cleans the house. When you grow up, think that this is her job. Could she leave all your stuff up to you? How will you manage? Along with your study or job.
Social media
We often acknowledge the importance of parents on social media, particularly on Father’s and Mother’s Days. However, we usually need to truly appreciate the significance of their roles. Our parents, who have always treated us like small children, are often taken for granted. In our culture, we have assigned specific roles to each gender, with the male’s sole duty being to earn and the female’s job being to maintain the house. This mindset often leads to males preferring to sit in one place and wait for the females to do all the work.
The girls use cell phones, and her mother works in front of her. This is not the right way to treat our loved ones. She did not know what you were doing with your mobile, but she believed what you said. You should ask yourself, “Is it vital work you are doing?” This question clears all doubt. Now, the question is why you should have assisted her. I write on this topic because I feel sad to see her innocent nature taken for granted.
Blessings
The parents are blessings for us. Their value should be understood at the right time to avoid regret. Did you hear what she asked from Almighty? She asks for the blessings of their children rather than for herself. Her center of focus becomes her offspring’s. The things which she does without pay are not her duty. If she left you at your place, who would take care of you?
Give what you want
If you want your children to give you respect, then give your parents respect. This is like showing what you want in return for it. If you mistreat your parents, you will be treated the same. Therefore, keeping in mind this fact, behave sensibly.
Conclusion
The family is a source of happiness. To remain happy, the attachment to them should continue. Your parents can leave you as you want. They have a choice no one can force them. I think you have to do all your work as your parents do in foreign countries. The children take responsibility for their lives. If they understand you as their center of attention, kindly give them the same value they deserve. They did not give you a demand list. But this is a point of thinking: what are you doing for them in return for their efforts?
